Luk

Luk
Our family.

Wednesday, April 9, 2025

Mcdonalds MineCraft

 

Our Hotel has a Fogs and Suds.
It's half price wing day.
They have the very best wings.
However,
Dear son who asks for very little was interested in the McDonald's Minecraft collectable toy with qr code for a Minecraft skin. So, we went next door to McDonald's instead.  He wanted Grimas.  I got Grimace on my meal so we traded.  Grimace is pretty cute in the game.  Happiness in the hotel room. We offered Birdie to Jia but apparently Birdie is ugly.  I think she's as cute as ever.

Our obligatory ferry shot.

This was a new situation.  Parked so tight we couldn't get out!!  I rolled the window down and yelled for help from a ferry worker. He had the guy ahead move up enough to get my door open.  Luk had to crawl to my side. Another woman squished herself between us and the car on the other side. Touching both cars all along. Omg.  And she yelled at me the whole way! Like it was my fault. While we were trapped! For real.  Luk and I watched her yell all the way, looked at each other and laughed.  I called Eric and we decided Luk and I should just stay in the car and eat a late lunch when we got off the boat.  My love affair continues with BC Ferries.  Not. Thank goodness we are in the Commander because I would have been pretty bent if someone was rubbing their body, zippers and buttons etc down the side of Onyx!  

The political climate is getting hard to take and people are getting so weird in general.  I need less people and more forest.  Time to hide.  It's becoming insane how people have yelled at me lately.

We have a ton of snacks but we both have gurgling tummies from the McDonald's. 

Tuesday, April 8, 2025

Eric's day.

Up with the boys. 

Pack lunches and eat breakfast.

Boys to school.

Park and walk Kai in.

Home.

Laundry.

Attentions the hot tub.

Packing the trailer up with wood for a weekend project with Ken.

Comes in for the Jia drama of waking up.

Makes us lunch.  

We finally get Jia out the door to school.

He drops Jia across town.

To Superstore to pick up prescriptions for me.

To the Dollarstore to surprise Luk and I with treats for our Children's trip tomorrow.

Fills the Commander with gas for me.

Home.

Laundry.

Back out across town to get Jia.

Drops Jia at home.

Back down to get the boys.

Park and walk in to get Kai.

Home.

Laundry.

Sits for about 40 minutes and scrolls on his phone with a coffee.

Makes dinner.

Serves dinner to the family.

Drives Jia to work.

Home.

Laundry.

Sits for half an hour and watches tv with me.

Takes Luk to meet his friends at the Minecraft movie.

Home.

Sits with me to watch tv again.

Down to pick up Luk.

Home.

We watch tv again.  It took 3 sessions of sitting to get through a 40 minute episode.

Drives to pick up Jia from work.  Sneaks a Big Mac and Jia rats him out.  Haha.  

Home.

More Laundry.

I handed over the remote and he is finally lounged in his chair. Done for the day.


Phew.  Seriously.  Normally I either help with some of the driving or keep him company.  If you were counting that was 8 trips out and back in the driveway. Today I stayed in sweats and worked most of the day.  Actual desk work.  Personal paperwork, house and pet chores.  I had an 11:30 appointment at Jia's school that was canceled so I took the opportunity to stay home and catch up.

Oh, and knowing Eric there is more to his list, this is just the things I know about.  There has been no time for chatting today ;)

Saturday, April 5, 2025

Loonlet

 

We slept until 10!!
Eric and I sat outside this morning with tea and sun and this tiny loonlet.
Holiday vibes.

Best part of camping here.  Family friendly pub dinners.


Osborn Bay is getting upgraded with more full service sites. The view from these ones will be amazing.

Luk sent me this picture.

Dole Soft Serve.
I suspect we'll be here often ;)
Kai is almost done his and we've all just started.  Haha, yes he did get brain freeze.

More holiday vibes.

It's been a very relaxing day.

In my camo.  I even got a wee nap in the sun.

We woke up to a burning electrical smell.  The solar controller wasn't working and was super hot.  Eric said the wood behind was scorched.  Yikes.  He dismantled it.  We need to order a replacement.  

There is no smell of mold when we're inside with all of our people smells.  It's been great.  Shockingly the horrible smell in the freezer is gone.  So that has been a pleasant surprise.  It started raining tonight while we were at friends campfire so we skedaddled home.  We're cozied in with our phones.  Home tomorrow morning.  Our time here whipped by.



Camping season has started.


Osborn Bay.
A favorite spot.  Close to home and perfect for making sure we have everything for the first trip out.  We're here celebrating Amy's 50th Birthday.

My beauty got the honors today.  The neighbor here said she was a pretty rig ;)  then he said he bet she doesn't go in the bush.  Haha.  Not too much.  Yet.

Got it back today!  Fixed.  And I can't find the mend.  The jeweler did however show me the hole where I did indeed smash it. So ya.  

Out on my own, color matched with my girl.  Tunes too loud and enjoying the sun during my Jeep therapy time.
To Woodgrove to get my ring and a bonus lunch with Mary.

It's been a week.

Our trailer has mold in the section between the slide and floor and we have smell.  From a leak.  Dammit.  Eric has been doing overtime cleaning and laundry and more and more and more of both.  Yesterday it felt like we were winning the battle.  Today the smell is there again but milder.  Eric has thoughts and plans for tearing apart the dinette to get at it.  In the meantime I have to just endure.  

Jia decided she wasn't going to school this week.  I find that extremely frustrating.  Jia doesn't.  Jia also decided not to go to the pediatrician this week and when I called to reschedule, push it off for three months instead we were dropped from the roster.  So ya.  That happened.  

Lili gave her notice at her place.  Now is looking for an apartment with a friend.  They are zeroing in on a lease.  So that's fun.

Fei picked up some extra shifts and she might be regretting working so much, she is exhausted.  

I got our personal taxes turned in to the accountant.

Yesterday was a doozy of a day.  Boys to school.  Laundry.  Dishes.  Pet care.  Then to Superstore for prescriptions and camping groceries.  The prescription took longer than anticipated and getting through the till was beyond nuts.  So we ended up in a time crunch. Grabbed lunch, Eric at home working on the trailer me back down to get the boys.  Then rushed to eat an early dinner so we could go to the MineCraft movie.  Phew.  

So at the grocery store, our cart was full and a woman asked if she could go ahead with her blueberries.  We said sure.  Then she was a gong show of issues.  Added a drink.  Rung through with her status card, didn't have the money, returned the berries, had to redo the status, manager needed, then she paid with nickles. The whole time the man ahead of her, who is SUPER special and moving exceptionally slowly is just plugging along with packing his groceries but the woman inbetween us is proclaiming loudly that he smells of pee and is trying to get everyone around her to smell him and is complaining because she is sensitive.  I tried to keep my head down and ignore but I finally told her "I can only smell you".  I might get beat up one day.  When the man at the end went around his cart I squeezed past her and got out.  Poor Eric was stuck behind the cart.  She even went so far as to try talking to the fellow about how badly he stunk of urine.  Oy.  Who does that?!  Ok, so then fellow still packing and our order was all crammed on the far counter and I did all the bagging since Eric was still trapped.  Ending the whole event with the people in the isle where I was flipping a bit because I was in their way.  It was completely insane.  The whole thing. 

When we were at the movie with Kai and Jia I had the thought that we REALLY needed this time to just get engrossed in a silly, funny movie.  It's rare that we get Eric to join us.  Kai was very excited about seeing this movie.  Then half way through Eric leaps up announcing that he's been hit in the head with something.  He asked the theater who threw it?  I did have to remind him to watch his language.  Not long after Kai was howling because he was hit in the ear.  Eric leaped up, I turned and saw a kid duck down and fly to the floor.  Eric brought back staff who told the kids to stop it.  Eric had me go back and sit with our kids and he stayed behind the hoodlums.  Jia was also hit in the head but didn't report that until later.

Ok.  So hit Eric and it's just annoying brats.  Hit my Kai and it's a different game entirely.  When the movie ended I approached the boy and asked if his parent was around.  He said no.  I asked if he would like to apologize and he looked at Kai and said "sorry Kai".  So ya.  He knew Kai.  I took a picture of the row of kids and then a woman sitting behind the boys flipped because I took a picture.  Hahaha.  Public place.  Pure pandemonium in the lobby.  Another kid confessed to being involved and he apologized to Eric.  Eric ignored him and carried on through the crowd.  I took time to watch his parents soft parent him.  Telling him it was ok and mistakes happen.  Oy.  Wrong letter in a spelling test = mistake, beaming people in the head at the movies = poor choices.  All while crazy woman is following me and swearing her head off because I took a picture.  We think she was the Mom of the main culprit.  Not confirmed.  When we were in our car and she was still swearing, I took a picture of her license plate, she is in the photo calling me a long list of names because I took her picture ;) Someone else might need to update her.

So ya.
It was a bit much.
Then, we got home.  Where Luk told us his friend was texting him during the beaming because he was one of the nine boys.  He named all the culprits involved. So much drama.  

I asked Luk today if the drama had died down he said "kids don't usually talk about things the next day".  Hillarious.  Oh son, you mean boys don't talk about it because girls would absolutely keep the drama going.  

I had thought about talking to the schools or the rcmp youth teams about the bullying but turns out this idiot kid has been in the boys elementary classes before and he is a behavioral mess in general.  After experiencing the joy of his Mom I just pity the kid.  His future is bleak.

I did send an email to the theater.  They followed up today with the measures they are working on re: protocol and safety.  It was a nice letter saying all the right things and offering us free tickets.  They missed the point.

Jia was not impressed with us.  I did ask if we were supposed to just sit and let someone, anyone continue to throw things at our heads?  Jia said "you do you".  

Luk didn't come with us because he is going Tuesday with friends.  I have fears about him going in a group of boys ;)  I asked him if I should go and keep an eye on things.  He said that was ok with him.  He is so sweet. I trust Luk to make better decisions.

So far I've realized I didn't pack meds for me, Kai or Eric.  Oops.  We also haven't come across the shoe bin yet.  

We really need some time to relax this weekend.  

Wonder what fun surprises we get to survive and deal with next week.

Sunday, March 30, 2025

Today's therapy.

 

Today's Oscar therapy brought to you by Shawnigan, Renfrew road, tranquil spots, Koksilah River, frogs and mountain tops.


Grrrr.



A zillion frogs!
We heard a strange sound while driving and pulled over to listen to the frog symphony.  So cool.

Ok, that link/video doesn't work.  I'll try again later.

We stopped at the Mill Bay Historical Society museum.

This is Adrian.  He gave us a personal tour.  He was awesome.  He learned lots from Eric about the area too.  This museum is free and honestly, it's tiny but PACKED with local history.  Definitely worth a wee stop. Update, they're only open on Sunday.





Last stop was Cherry Point for a walk.  Then home to the kids.  Jia works at 6 and we wanted to do an early dinner.

More mud than we were anticipating today so Oscar is getting ANOTHER bath.  Mom just asked the other day if Eric minded cleaning him so often.  Nope.  Just another chance to attention his favorite toy of all time.

And that ends spring break.
The most boring of spring breaks ever.  We tried to get them out to do the fun things.  







Saturday, March 29, 2025

Eric's design.



A platform to even the back out for car camping!  He designed this and built it today. It fits in Onyx too.  When the back seats are up it is behind and it fits under his soft top shelf.  I've requested he paint it black.  All of the gear has been delivered, scavaged and thrifted.  The only thing to still come is the mattress.


So cool.

Room underneath for chairs, table,  and privacy tent.

My ring was ready to be picked up.  Mom and Fei came with me to the mall.  Unfortunately my ring was deemed unrepairable. That was disappointing.  We then took it to an independent goldsmith and they took on the job.  Fingers crossed.  We played in the mall for a couple hours.  Mom treated Fei and I to an i-spa massage.  Hillarious experience.  I bought a new raincoat.  My current one is almost fabulous.  It meets all needs of a perfect coat except the fabric is reflective and it ruins a lot of photos.  We bought Easter chocolate and cute things in the Miniso store.  Had a few laughs and ate lunch in the food court.

Today I got to galavant with Christine.  Tea and medium visits at the Blue Caterpillar.  Christine chose tarot card and I chose a tea leaves session.  I went into this with extremely low expectations.  Just there to spend time with a friend.  However....my reading was extremely accurate.  Nothing earth shattering.  Basically keep doing what I'm doing with health, she accurately pin pointed the current area of concern. Keep trying to find joy and take the time to appreciate the new lifestyle quest of more dirt, less pavement.  She sees travel, my feet in the ocean, bucket list plans happening.  I have an old girlfriend coming back.  Look out for hummingbirds, there is a message coming in a moment of peace and clarity.  Shockingly humming birds have shown up 3 times since I've been home. Once in tv, in conversation and on my phone.  The funny part was in smaller details like her just dropping that my Dad was there, without knowing he was gone or that on the way there I told Christine I wasn't looking for anything heavy or emotional like chatting with Dad.  Then she asked why she was being shown ducks over and over.  Haha.  Too funny.  So freaking random.  Honestly, every word was accurate.  Then we went to the pub next door for lunch.  


Two more days of spring break and lounging.

This is the wee little camp stove.  If a stove can be cute, it would be this one.

You guys....there is Dole Whip in Crofton!  At the thrift store/laundromat.  I've never had it in a cone before. It's good.  I'm delighted it's so close by.  Eric got a coffee, I got the whip and we went to the ocean.  I said "you know when I've had enough and I take off for a drive, this is where I come".  Eric responded with "I know, 360 app".  

Another thing the medium said was, I see a big heart, your partner really loves you, you have no issues there.  Swoon.

I have labor day camping booked. So the 'booking' portion of summer is almost done.  I have two more days to book connected to our Sam Joseph Bay trip.  We also just booked Osborn Bay for next weekend.  We're celebrating Amy's 50th.  







Sunday, March 23, 2025

Puddle Jumping

 

Once upon a time the very best fun was dressing kids up in raincoats and boots and stomping in puddles.  

New era.
Now we leave the teens to sleep the day away and take Oscar to play in the puddles.  Check out that splash!!

We found new trails.  This section was full of rolled giant rocks.  Very cool.

If you go high enough there is still some snow out there.

No views with it being so overcast though.

So much splashing today.



Debbie sent us a photo of this shirt at Mark's.  Duncan had it, but no sale listed so I showed them the picture and we got the deal ;)

Wednesday, March 19, 2025

The slide.

 

Today's outing started with a Dr. appointment for me.  I have a spot on my temple that needed looking at.  Biopsy is scheduled for April 15.  
Will I get to wash my hair after?  

Then to Costco.  We found nice lined coats for the boys. Pee pads. Manuka honey for my impending head wound. A folding table for car camping and a bunch of groceries. Hotdogs and poutine in the car for lunch.  Costco was a total mad house.

Then we went to the Skywalk. It was windy and cold but it didn't rain and it was a good walk.

I told Kai to touch the talon and pretend it was sharp.  He grabbed the leg and started trying to vigorously shake the whole thing.  Oy.  Always moments you don't expect when out with Kai.


Kai loved the slide.  However getting on the slide was wild.  Eric and I discussed logistics a few times.  Finally deciding Eric should go first and Luk and I would stay up top and make sure he went down.  Kai eagerly leaped into the opening but couldn't understand the instructions re: putting his feet in the matt foot pouch.  He was flapping his arms and yelling "I have no clue". Except the fellow working couldn't understand Kai.  I yelled to him that Kai was visually impaired and couldn't see the foot area to tuck into.  While the worker is looking stricken with panic and yelling "is there a parent?".  So, I made my way past people in line, explained to Kai he needed to lift his feet up.  He was no longer able to deal and just sat there.  I leaned all in and physically fought his stiffness to get his legs up and feet tucked in.  Then had him scouchy his bum back.  Then he was told he could go and he just sat there.  I asked if we could push him.  It took two of us.  Omg.  He said weeee going down.

Luk and I wondered down, Kai and Eric wandered up.  This was our conversation.
Me: Wow Kai, you did it!  How was the slide?
Kai: I'm firty.
Me: Did you like the slide?
Kai: I'm firty.
Me: I'm asking you about the slide and you're telling me you are thirsty, are you two? How did you like the slide?
Kai: It was good.
We went ahead and got the boys passes.  Kai wants to go on the slide again.  It's not often he does things willingly.

Shannon texted that they got a room upgrade on the Alaska cruise.  A couple hours later I got an email that we got our upgrade bid too.  From inside to spacious balcony. So that was fun news.

I'll admit after today being with Kai in a new situation was a big reminder of what cruising with Kai is actually like.  I have some dread or trepidation.  Kai loves hotels and food so he likes cruising.  I'm however thrilled that Eric and I will get the bonus 4 days on our own beforehand.