Luk

Luk
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Thursday, September 10, 2026

Sheesh

 


Eric left at 3am.  The gate was wiped out by the Walmart delivery person at 9:33.  We made it a whopping six and half hours without needing Eric.  Sheesh.

The fellow left his back door open on his sedan.  The gate is now lodged into the driveway.  Can't swing it.  Too heavy to lift.  I'm decently sure it's been twisted.  I did send Eric photos.  Then I went to Walmart to report it.  The driver did NOT confess.  Shouldn't he have made an effort to let me know it happened?!  I'm guessing there had to have been significant damage to his car.  I did show the pictures and video of him to a Walmart employee in customer service. Waiting now for a manager from Walmart to call me.

So much for closing the gate at night.

Eric and Ben are making good time.  They just stopped in Salem at a Walmart to stock up on groceries.



Wednesday, September 9, 2026

Rogers

I have no faith.  It's been an ordeal. I decided on Sunday to get Starlink.  Eric and I are out of cell range regularly.  Clearly this will continue.

It's $75 a month no hardware fees for the mini.  However, the bill was $3985 so I very quickly got out.  

Garmin has options but they're pricey.  I asked Google for advice.  It suggested Rogers Satellite.  

So, I started.  Got shut down after doing all the verification and financial approval part.  Monday was a holiday.  Tuesday we hit the store.  Nope.  Go online.  Can't get online, added security.  Call this number.  I spent HOURS on the phone only to be told that I was all set, just need to scan the qr codes on our phones.  Except I'm locked out and don't have access to the codes.

On the phone again today.  Just told busy, call back.  Arg.

Eric leaves tomorrow.  He is with Ben who has Starlink but wouldn't it be nice if he could message out himself.  

Back to the store.  No help.  I may have been quite sharp with him.  Demanded he attempt to help me.  Then accused him of lying when he said he didn't have access to support. Left in a huff.

Back on the phone and on hold for three hours!!!!!  I'm not a fan of jazz.  This was scratchy, horrible jazz on repeat with a constant message to go to the store or go online to the app.  Except I'm locked out!

Apparently old Shaw customer accounts don't mesh with new Rogers mobile accounts.  Great loyalty huh?!

I'm happy and exhausted to report Rogers 10th employee that I dealt with was able to link the accounts.  The e-sims are loaded and it appears that both of our phones have active second phone numbers with access to Satellite.

The only way to test this is to get out of range.

I really have zero faith that this will work.  Bell is releasing the same option in the spring.  Right this second I'd like to switch the home cable and internet and jump ship when Bell catches up.

Sheer determination here. I told Eric today that filing a missing person report in the USA from here might be easier than getting the damn Satellite access working.

I'd like to get back to normal life.  Several days was just nuts.  Hands down Rogers has the worst customer service I've ever come across.

Why do things feel more and more frustrating?  Why is customer service just gone? I've become the classic old person moaning that things used to be better.

Tuesday, September 8, 2026

Boys in Grade 10

 

1st day of grade 10.
Luk had a good day, only got lost once. He left campus with friends at lunch.  I'm working on my feelings about that.

Kai's skills for life classroom has 19 students.  Only 2 are in grade 10.  The rest are in 11, 12 and 13. It was only 10's in school today so it was very quiet for him.


He was the first one there today.

After school we put the top back in Onyx, blasted the music, had icecream and watched a hovercraft doing maneuvers in Cow Bay.  
The photo try was a total bomb but funny.  Lol.







Monday, September 7, 2026

Solo


My first solo trip in Squirrel.  It went ok overall.  Kissinger lake on a long weekend.  Not quite the peaceful experience I was hoping for.  Music too loud.  Lots of hooting and hollering.  Spectrum kid beside me.  Everyone has led lights outside now, so it never got dark.  Kids cutting through my site past my windows. Damn smoke from fires.  I much prefer propane.  I won't be rushing to get back there for a while ;)  On the plus side, my set up worked great.
Bounty.  They're huge this year.

Mom made the trek out for an afternoon at Kissinger.  Her 1st time there.  She didn't completely love the  bumpy fsr road.  The lake is worth it though.

Brenda's Birthday.

It's the night before school. Sigh.  The boys have clothing picked out, new shoes, Kai has his hair cut and lunch is planned.  Back to early mornings.  Yuck.  

Lili, Fei and Jia are all back to school too.  Different schedules and starts.

Countdown to Eric's trip.  He's ready.  I'm not.  I'm already excited about him coming back.  




Thursday, September 3, 2026

Kai's 15th Birthday

We started our day out right with whole grain, low fat, high protein and fibre pancakes with bananas and sugar free syrup :)  Yum.

It's crazy that he's 15!

Goats! Is it a clutch when they huddle?

Kai and I love hanging with the goats at Beacon Hill.

Luk made it up in leg braces but needed a bit of help with the down part.

Lol.

Hey boys, let's get your pictures on this iconic tree.

With great effort and a great Dad, we made it to this moment.  Kai was proud that he was 'up'.  Luckily Eric didn't hurt himself.

We did laugh about all the adaptions.

Kai and his new phone.

It took a lot for me to get this dang thing happening.  I bought it from Amazon.  My young people were no help.  I muddled.  A lot.  He has all of his games plus a few more.  The screen is set with dinosaurs.  All apps cleaned up so his page is simple.  Luk did a bit more set up with Netflix and loaded him with a couple movies.  He was pretty excited.  He knew it was happening but didn't get it until his bday.  There were tears.

He was overwhelmed so we held back the bag of little treats to dole out slowly at home.  

Spaghetti Factory.  He wasn't impressed with the sparkler.  He wanted to eat and he had to wait for it to finish.

The Happy Birthday in cinnamon sugar wasn't his thing either...too hard to eat :)  

He tried to eat the writing anyways.

We were supposed to stay another night but someone borrowed medical supplies from the trailer and didn't replace it or bring any out.  So we skedaddled home and ate Kai's bday cake at 10pm.  Eric baked a cake as well, so yes, Kai had three pieces of cake.  So, all in all, it was a great Birthday.


Two handed.
Normally Kai likes to make an effort to pet all of them.  He wants to know their names and check the board to see if we met them all.  He likes to croon "awe, look at the babies".  This time his strategy was to sit and let them come to him.

Big yawn.





Luk doesn't usually pet but he did this time and this little lady settled down and layed with her head on his lap and Luk later said it was the best part of the day.  Awe.

At one point a worker introduced us to great gramma, gramma, mom and baby.  



 

French Beach

Another crappy weather trip for Kai and I.  

We had a few minutes of sun when we arrived.  Then hid inside for the next two days.  Movies for Kai.  Books for me.
Eric was busy at home.  The windows are in.  The trim put back and prettied up.  Now he's refreshing the whole peak and adding some more black to the trim.  

He is also tinkering on Oscar.  Who at this point is pretty much rebuilt.  Lol.  He's leaving to do the Rubicon trail, Moab, and Death Valley with our friend Ben.  Two weeks of serious wheeling for the two of them.  They both have Jku's.  Yesterday they met for coffee to go over the list of spare parts they are carrying.  Gotta keep the Lego habit going.

Funny, as he builds Oscar up he then uses the old parts to rebuild Squirrel.  It's very handy having matching toys.  Squirrel is doing great.  I have a site at Kissinger for this weekend.  Leaving tomorrow afternoon.  I'm watching the clouds.  It's not looking great.  I've never camped in the rain as much as this summer.  

We had extremely limited cell service at French Beach.  Frustrating.  Emails, texts and calls coming in but no real ability to respond.  

Kissinger is no service at all.  I get to completely ignore real life.  If anyone needs me they'll have to drive out.

I did get a message that my Anal Dysplasia Clinic appointment for September is canceled.  Arg.  Rebooked for Dec.  I'm supposed to go every three months but this first one is six months past surgery.  Definitely frustrating.  I think I'll call Tuesday and ask to be on a cancelation list.
With chemo and radiation the five year survival rate is 88% for anal cancer.  With surgery alone it's 55%.

I know we can't get bogged down with other people's numbers but it does make me want to be more vigilant about getting to the check points.  

I went to the pharmacy and vet today.  Mine and Sasha's meds sorted for the next two months.  Gets me through the cruise.  Then sat at home cutting all her teeny tiny pills in half.  Yeesh.  I can hardly see them.  It was tedious, but it's done.

Last weekend, Lili and I went to Granville Island to see a play.  Which was hillarious.  Belly laughs.  The actors were sooo good.  

Peruvian music.

Lots of drooling in the market.


Hullo, Skytrain, bus and an Uber.

This girl, loves cities.  Guiding me all over on public transit.  It's like being 17 all over again.  I'm still not a fan of city life or trying to figure out routes but it is fun to watch Miss do all the adulting.  



 

Thursday, August 27, 2026

Bittersweet

 

The 1910 windows upstairs are done.  Some broken, all of them warbly glass, the wood is rotten and the wind whistles in.  Today he starts the swap for the new modern windows.  

I know I'm going to love the ability to open them for fresh air.  Control heat better and have a clear view out.  The bittersweet part is knowing I'll miss the look of them outside when we drive in.  The new ones will definitely not match the main floor whatsoever.

Eric is installing them from the outside so the old molding inside stays untouched.  

It will be a long day of pounding.

I had hoped to take off camping on my own this afternoon but the weather is looking pretty iffy.