So, calls were made this morning.  I'm not going to lie, we discussed lying.  Haha.  
The universe doesn't want us on an Alaskan Cruise.
We are getting a full refund. Canceling was pretty easy.  An Expedia TA did it for me.
I had hoped to just rebook but if we cancel for covid we can't rebook for 90 days.  Which just doesn't work for several reasons. 
I've already sobbed.  A few times.
Road trip it is!  No decisions have been made.