Luk

Luk
Our family.

Thursday, January 19, 2023

Boys/school

Eric was approached by the special needs coordinator at school today. Wondering if the boys diets have changed. They have not. However we are told today that both boys are having bathroom issues. I'll spare you the details. The boys are not potty trained. There are many issues. Some medical, some cluelessness. CLEARLY if we could fix the issues we WOULD. They're 11. It's extremely difficult. For them, for us, for anyone dealing with them. So Eric had to explain paralysis AGAIN. There is no explanation for Kai, pretty much mostly that his self awareness and safety is still around 2 years old. So we just have to accept the way it is. We've had seven years of trying to potty train him, all day, every day. So why is the school suddenly confused about what is going on?!  

We briefly discussed pulling Luk and homeschooling, the problem is, he isn't driven. No extra projects or interests. With Kai we simply have no clue where he should be. Clearly not school.  

Another embarrassing, frustrating day here.
Tomorrow Eric is going into school to hunt down pants. Again. Because none came home.

As always, trying to keep home a stress free zone that is accepting. Planning 
rootbeer floats for snack tonight.

My cough and sore throat, swollen glands are all under control today. Crohns 
flare still bonkers.

Max is here with Jia. Albi is with Eric. I'm sulking in the living room with the puppers.

Eric got both mine and Fei's cars fixed. Lili called to chat this afternoon she is planning to come late tomorrow night. She is missing Jenny.